BGR General Discussion

i ment that u dun understand me when i say bgr is gd 4 health

not food laaa

HAISYO..

i know la i was being lame le hahahaha

LAME IS something that u dont need to be..
it's in ur blood..

what the heck now...good for health?

does why so dum right...then he scolding me so irri le hahaah

Y good 4 health?lol

BGR is for good health?Haha.Ya rite.In what kind of conditions??It oni can bring trouble mostly to youths.Ppl above 20 ok la.

TOtaL freak out dont uderstand

mathew dont alwiz freak out...xD

hmmm...i din reli answer the question, whether bgr is bad anot, rite..? well, let's see... my opinion, well, as teenagers, how lar not to ask u NOT to like someone of the oposite sex, rite? if u don like anyone, hmmm, then i'll start to worry lar! hahaha..

so, i think, at ur age, 13-18, it's good to get ur hormones movin abit! hahaha, but then again, u reli need to know urself n need to haf self control lar. if u noe u're the kind who has no control at all, then.... RUNNNNNNNNNN!!!! run as far away as u can..till u're finally ready n mature enuf to handle a relationship...

if u're those kind which can jus haf the hots for a girl or a guy, without gettin emotionally or mentally too involved or attached, then why not...

kesimpulannya... whether bgr is good or bad... it's a subjective question... u need to noe urself (do some soul searchin, peeps! ) and pray!!! always turn to God!

u noe, i used to b ashamed of prayin n askin God abt bgr stuff. coz to me, i tot He's too big for a silly thing like bgr. i felt stupid talkin to him abt my small lil bgr probs. then i realised that God was the one who created us, the One who created relationships... and so He longs for us to turn to Him even if we haf bgr probs and He wants to take each step of our journey ere on earth with us! the question is...are we willing to allow Him to..?

Liking someone isn't wrong!:p
and anywyz....the time you post...3 am?
what you doin on a monday morning????
hahah!

God created hormones....just keep them under control...

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haha..
ya joel..
no wrong..t
ttats y u so lik ....
do u knw wat i mean?/
haha..

su-ann u mad ah?/
3 am post..

LOL...what su ann said is correct..it make sense...
Matthew freaked out agian...kakakakaka
Thx GOD,im not sesat here...=p

ahah su ann ur 100% right n i understand u sista.....hehe....its a girl to girl thing hahah

su-ann is da best.can share all her knowledge.share more.hahaha.BGR is not bad.liking some1 is not bad.just dont get over reacted.

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haa..
ok..
no comment bout tat.
bcoz su-ann more experient than any1 of us here

yeah.....so share your experience here su-ann!!
your sharings is greatly appreciated...

yea..
haha..
sure alot thin u nvr tek de,,

joeltay17 wrote:

Su-Ann wrote:

joeltay17 wrote:Man how can you guyz think of getting a girlfriend/boyfriend?
We all know in our hearts...this isn't the age...
But yet inside us, we have the feeling of...curiousity...
I mean...we all know that...this isn't really the time....
Love waits like Anne said.
And you know what's the purpose to find a girlfriend/boyfriend?
Is to find who you're gonna marry later in the future...Husbands and wifes?
That's some serious stuff man.

wow joel.. me proud of u! =)

i gues sometimes it's not so much about
curiousity, but more of jus wanting to have someone there.. as in, you
wanna love and be loved in return, to finally feel loved. i guess,
tat's how most girls feel...am i rite girls? well, if not, it was for
me lar...

but yea, it cud b for guys, it's curiousity... and mayb
ego... like u wanna say "hey look at me, i haf a hot girl.." or smtg
like tat...?

I think mentally ill guyz will boast they have a hawt gf...LOL.
But it's good to talk good about your gf...not as in...
"hey guyz! i have a gf thts hawter than all your girlfriends!"

So i think yeah...wanting to love and be loved...=D.

(ok.. im back..) Hmm.. I totally agree with su ann.. about the girls wanting to feel loved.. I know I do.. well.. actually.. Ijust want more security.. To know that I have someone to turn to when I'm down or just plain high on laughter..

seriously la.. I read both ann and anne's post i cant help but agree.. hmm. and joel..

but.. What if.. you already did get into one.. and that guy broke your heart right.. when you thought.. that you just moght end up with him.. i mean yea.. i've considered the fact that i'm too young to be thinking this kind of things.. (possibly a million times too -- but feelings can't be helped..) and ok.. it wasn't exactly a relationship.. more of a pending one.. and now.. about 3/4+ motnhs later.. your litle heart still has feelings..

Oh.. and one question.. how do you REALLY know whether it's love or not? I can be as sure as I am.. but can't help myself from wondering..

Oh yeaa.. and one more thing.. sometimes I guess it would be a nice feeling if your bf talked about you.. not in the "my gf is hotter" manner but more of the "I dont care what you guys think of her. I still like/love her" manner. er.. you get the picture right?

got it lynne.all oso got experience.hehe.good.

I got experience aso...lol....ahhahaha

haha okayzzz...right....hmm no experience but happy hehehe

hahaha.Dnt worry la Lari,not all got experience.Jian,u experience wit who la,dei...

u said i am worring i am happy k.....

wateva girl.(gosh...I tok like JC aradi)'swt'

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haha..
experient??
haha.
i got oso..
weeeeeeee
but..
haiz
juz lik lynne say..
sumtime i oso very confused le..
izit reli luv??

hm.....yeah!!!! at this age we dun know nuts rtight....hehe....

this kind of age we go nuts not knowing what is love....xD

aahah....u terbalikan my word ahah...cool...

stil de same meaning..
hehe..
anyway..
wat u all do after u all finish a relationship ah??
i mean either u dumb ppl o ppl dumb u..
hehe..
can i kwn??

lynne:

it's normal for a girl to think ahead.. to want to plan a future wid
that special someone. but it is different for guys.. for most guys,
gettin in a relationship isn abt commitment. they jus wanna test the
waters. to them it's like, if it works out then great! if it doesn't,
it's alright... so that's why we as girls reli have to guard our
hearts...

and i know what u mean when u say "ur little heart still has
feelings"... coz the 1st guy i ever liked, i liked him for 8 years.
well, eventho it was more of a one-way-street kinda thing, but it
lasted long. don't try to force the feelings outta u, as in, don try to
force urself to stop liking him. it'll jus make the whole process even
harder... jus give ur heart time to heal. and once u get over him, u
wud b able to move on, without holdin on to anythin from the past...

qing:
it's different when u grow older. ending a mature relationship shud never be abt who dumps who... well, for cases like one party cheats on the other, it's different lar. but when u grow older, ending relationships wudn b abt who dumps who 1st. it wud be the 2 parties haf tried, and they jus feel that the other is not the right one for them. so it's mutual.

when most highskool relationships end, the whole relationship (or rather friendship) turns sour, am i right? that's coz it's more abt me dumping u.. or u dumping me. on the contrary, i always believe that even after a relationship ends, the 2 parties shud be able to remain as frens, if not close frens. i mean, how cud u have been together n become so close to the person and not b able to remain as frens later? yes, right after the relationship ends, both parties need time to heal. but then after tat period of time, i believe that they shud b able to stay as frens...

am i makin any sense? ehhehe, tryin to explain it as clearly as i can for all to un... plz b reminded tat wat i say is in context of endin a relationship mutually, not in cases wher 1 party cheats or does smtg bad lar... tat wud b a whole diff story... =)

joel & lari:
yes, it's hard when u don noe wat ur feelings are. ppl often mistake infatuation for love. i'm not sayin that teenagers aren't capable of love. but sometimes, those deep feelings may be caused by our raging hormones! many a times we know tat it's infatuation/fling/crush. but at the same time, the feelings tat we have is so....strong! and tat makes us wonder whether it reli is love or infatuation. hehhee, well, tat's part of being a teenager. we think we noe it all, but deep down, we're jus...................





































SESAT!!!!

wow..ok..i get it..so..haha..i wrong odi..


but ann..
izit reli so easy to get ove sum1??
seriously..
lik u say..
if it is a one way street...
dun force ourselves to stop lik him/her..
it wil make the process harder??
sure onot??
i not reli agree wit tat lor..
u reli can get over him/her??
i dun think so lor..
sumtime..
if say lar..
u lik the guy..
then de guy is oso single..
then he nvr say lik any1..
tat make u feel tat u stil got chance rite??
aiyo..
lik tat..
u can get over onot le??



time??
seriously..
works ah??
i mean...
if u reli think of tat person everyday..
can u get over onot??
the past stil de past..
for me lar..
i seriously cant 4get about the sweet ting and the bad thing tat happen between the person and me.....
other ppl i think same oso..
u knw..
its deep inside our heart odi..
it juz lik a scar u knw..
hard to disappear..


frens after a mature relationship..
dis i agree wit u lar..
haha..
it juz time problem..
when time pass..
u wil b heal..
juz chat lik usual lar..
aiyo..
nth de..
dun b lik paise lar..

1 more thing lar..
ann..
nw i talking for guys alr..
aiyo..
u say..
for most of the guys..
getting in to a relationship is not about commitment..
i tottally disagree wat u say..
hw u knw?? u not us ok..
guys oso very serious in dis de ok..
pls lar...
dun see lik we r testing u gals..


hehe..
alot question le..
hope su-ann understand wat i talking le..
then answer me back..
wakaka..
lik debat le..

Ann...ur advises is good.Its true.But here is the thing,u wont know how love ends.Ppl have different behaviors.We wont really know the end.

Qing,not all serious.some will play play.not us la.its ok.but see, guys is like...like to play.guys are like 'ok la.If thats the way,so be it'.So,we cant be sure.

To release stress of liking some1,tell him/her then you will be relieve.Dont believe,try for urself.

Hope u guys understand what I say.

Ann i understand what you mean bout the testing water thing.. though i think qing doesn't.. but then again.. maybe it's more applicable for cocasions.. not us.. guaa... or according to qing la.. hmm.. Maybe guys are just scared of the commitment?

Then again right.. when you're the type who really seeks security and love.. aiyoo.. hard to jaga jaga laa..

Suprisingly.. any sort of relationship i've had.. whether couple or not.. all also we still can talk like normal friends.. And they're all during highschool.. (not that many le)

Qing, I agree with ann.. Time can heal lo.. Though I guess not all.. but still most.. Like some scars we get are for life.. some dissapear in a number of days.. and others last half our lives.. So i guess it just depends on all the conditions.. =/

Su-Ann wrote:

it's normal for a girl to think ahead.. to want to plan a future wid
that special someone. but it is different for guys.. for most guys,
gettin in a relationship isn abt commitment. they jus wanna test the
waters. to them it's like, if it works out then great! if it doesn't,
it's alright... so that's why we as girls reli have to guard our
hearts...

Still depends....some guys want a serious relationship, some are just playing around...but I don't really wanna play or fool with a girls' heart...
It's a heart...you know? It can be fragile...you could break it easily...
Stitching it back to pieces...takes some time...

Su-Ann wrote:

and i know what u mean when u say "ur little heart still has
feelings"... coz the 1st guy i ever liked, i liked him for 8 years.
well, eventho it was more of a one-way-street kinda thing, but it
lasted long. don't try to force the feelings outta u, as in, don try to
force urself to stop liking him. it'll jus make the whole process even
harder... jus give ur heart time to heal. and once u get over him, u
wud b able to move on, without holdin on to anythin from the past...

Sometimes i still can't believe i could change crushes in a snap...had a crush in my school for 3 years...i thought i could never live without her.
Mana tahu a better girl came into my life and in a snap i forget about her...