BGR General Discussion

hmm yeah...c so early get heartache dy...so yeah wait till ur settle down or something then only move onn to gf or bf....after studies very important...it will affect ur studies wan...i think i dunno le coz havent experience b4...but through my friends thats has gone through it waliou got effect studies wan...some le...i dunno le...ur wish...if u can control it then ok le... but yeah hmmm!!!

so true.

haha
true..
yea..

For now,GOD & STUDY comes first!
Wheee~
Let Larissa give a talk on BGR.She's good at it.Trust me.HAha!

BGR ar...U aspirers can start 1 now, but 90% of u will end up wasting ur time & having a broken heart, just focus on ur studies 4 the meantime ya!

make it a 99.9 %.

haha
yea..
no more luv joel..
knw wat..
let go bah..
haha...

i had my first (and only so far) bf at 19. Looking back now, i have to say i wasnt ready to handle a r/ship back then. wat more in sch?

r/ship is not easy lor. not like u see in tv. real r/ship is so much more. y rush into it? canot wait to feel heartache isit? its not like in the tv.

put studies and self character building first. there's a LOT of time after school for BGR

but i know la, feelings canot control one lor. if anyone knows how tell me, i oso wan to know. but we can control our actions lor. so "yan" lor for now. fren fren. go out in group. happy happy. msn email or watever. can di la. nonid to start anything one ma. rite? if dun work out, no more fren fren, then how? true love waits mah.

Anne,I wan ask u.What if we wait till 80 still cant get a BGR???I mean its a logic question.:p

WAH IM SO PROUD OF THIS POST!!!hehe yeah everybody`s fikiran is like coming out here good....haah...true right so ermm yeah....GOD first then study then err whatever le....concentrate...well ermm...yeah continue people szz

LarRy signing outt@!!1

Grab d chance when its available...once miss might regret...
dats my opinion...and appreciate it

haha..
yea..
grab..
chance wont wait 4 u..
but seriously lar..
true luv is wat actually..(for BGR)
i cant get it u knw..
sum time ppl only pretend to luv sum1 only lar..
to get wat they wan...

tskk...tsk....thatz is bad.....no no no...true lovee is u r loyal to that person u trust that person honour thatperson haha....i think le...but yeah that is very important in a relationship...trust...honour...loyalty...hmm....too young wont know the reall meaning of LOVE!!!

People nowadays mix LOVE & LUST up.

Don't mix them up.
We're at the age prone to crushes and infactuations.
And we guyz...still immature...

AMEN.

hmm yeah le....ahah....naughty

joeltay17 wrote:People nowadays mix LOVE & LUST up.

Don't mix them up.
We're at the age prone to crushes and infatuations.
And we guyz...still immature...

Infatuation can exist without love.
There are some relationships that begin as infatuation later develop into love. However, relationships built on infatuation usually do not work out well. The fantasy will soon fade away.
I guess it would recreate another fantasy from time to time until we find true love. Do not know what is the meaning love, still learning. So whatever it is, please read Jeremiah 29:11

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leekinfei wrote:
Infatuation can exist without love.
There are some relationships that begin as infatuation later develop into love. However, relationships built on infatuation usually do not work out well. The fantasy will soon fade away.
I guess it would recreate another fantasy from time to time until we find true love. Do not know what is the meaning love, still learning. So whatever it is, please read Jeremiah 29:11

fuhhhhhhhhh... the wise has spoken... hahaha, yea mus listen to kinfei.. sudah tua, berpengalaman.. hehehe sorry fei, cudn't resist, had to kacau u...

love is a verb ppl. [grammar: verb = kata kerja] it's not a feeling. it's a choice not hormones. ur dad loving ur mom is a conscious choice and decision to not look to another person even after 20yrs of marriage. like kinfei said bout infatuation... its very true. how do u differentiate love n infatuation? (read agapeline sept06 issue) it's the choice u make.

jerm, haf faith that God will provide. i know its a scary notion (believe me, i KNOW how scary the thought is) but we shud be like shadrach meshach and abednego... "even if He doesnt, we will still praise Him" God's plans for us are to proper us and to give us hope (jeremiah 29:11)

joel tay, words of wisdom... tats a mature statement.

guys, how many times are u gonna promise another ur eternal love that will go on forever. how many times u've given ur heart away. how many ppl haf u told that they are the ony one? wouldnt u want the one u marry, be the only? lari? so y not wait. how many bits of ur heart are u gonna give away?

jian, sometimes circumstances are not right, then how? we wait. perhaps wrong circumstances are God's way of telling us to wait, tat its not time, not the right person, tat we r not ready. Perhaps?

sorry talk so panjang lebar

haihzzz...i'm totally blur wat uall talking bout..oni 2wiks din go on9..haha....
anyway...i oso duno wat 2 say..haha..

wooohooooo!! there should be an introduction page joel...
i don't know where to introduce myself...
anwyays..

nice to know that u guys run this place..
was equally thrilled to see mattehw as admin.. .
keep it up u guys!

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i knw who r u..
haha..
derrick rite..
weeeeeeee...
welcome back derrick..
hehe..

Welcome Derrick.Glad u come in here.
Welcome bak to Malaysia
And thanks for your gift

Perhaps sumtimes it just go on well...who knows?
Derrick is back...muhahahahah

hmm yeah for derrick...

terpesong again....i'll create one derrick!
welcome back...

ahh eyah bgr hmm so yeah good bad i dunno depends on u

ya lor..
but seriously..
wan to in bgr..
first muz trust ur gf o bf..
if no trust..
is nth u knw...

Yeah...trust her/he if not 'die'...

ya but dnt trust so much.You wont know if he/she want a bgr with you just for money or something.First see the truth from what the guy/girl want.

ya..
dats y.
.hei jeremy..
for bgr..
erm..
hw to say..
no trust..
seriously..
no luv..
if u reli cnt trust..
u llik u say..
dun trust too much..
then reli tis luv wont end long..

Man how can you guyz think of getting a girlfriend/boyfriend?
We all know in our hearts...this isn't the age...
But yet inside us, we have the feeling of...curiousity...
I mean...we all know that...this isn't really the time....
Love waits like Anne said.
And you know what's the purpose to find a girlfriend/boyfriend?
Is to find who you're gonna marry later in the future...Husbands and wifes?
That's some serious stuff man.

yea..
joel..
nw i reli agree wit u lar...
haha.
mayb i experient b4 about getting hurt by sum1..
very very hurt..
tats y no more bgr 4 me nw..
hehe..
not the time yet..
derrick told me b4..
i f4 oso not yet finish..
i got alot time more..
collage le..
uni le..
aiyo..
stil alot..
wait guys..
u wil find out soon..
not nw..
pls...

ahah year so true...yo trust very important if u trust her\he then there is nothing to do with $$ dy right haahai love u....u love me hahah!!!