BGR General Discussion

I will do that...=)
No worries...

got anyting ask me lar..
hehe

hhahaha... haven't you heard? no man can understand a woman. learn from all the married uncles and grandpas. jus love the gal - u cud never understand them. kekeke....

Yup,but at least i want try understand gals as much as possible...
I must improve as a guy

ya..but hmm...

you will not improve at a certain point....

And i know i can at any point if i have the desire to do so

so go for it. =)

hmm..
ok..
i juz get a deeper understandin bout luv...


Love is a profound feeling of tender affection. Love is a deep, ineffable feeling shared in passionate relationship. Love is really graceful, like the The traditional Chinese character for love consists of a heart (middle) inside of "accept," "feel" or "perceive," which shows a graceful emotion. Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails.

Definations of love includes:
Life - someone to whom one would give their life.
Care - a mental or emotional state of predisposition in which one has an interest or concern for someone or something.
Union - dissolution of loving subject into loved object; a hyper-real state of creative generosity.
Bond - the inner connection when another person is a part of your identity.

hmm..
can get it????????

seokqing wrote:i stil rmb...
haha..
marriage mind...
haha...
so when u start dating..
think bout marriage odi...


yea...
marriage..
cant wait for tat...

yeah, wihtout something in mind, where do u think the relationship will go?
no where!

what u going to say?! let's date... let's see if we are compatible..
let's date for.... now were 16... date 10 years... .till 26. i mean, graduate from uni when 23, then work for 3 years, so can buy car, save for wedding then marry...

wahlau ehh.... a bit far fetched right 10 years?


so date when the age is right
i think u guys got that... sorry reply so late.
i got exams laa

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jian wrote:Yup,but at least i want try understand gals as much as possible...
I must improve as a guy

hehe.. .this is where u guys need to be clear.
u wanna be a better guy. how? be a better person to ..... ALL PEOPLE.
no...not the one u're so helplessly crushed on - but EVEYRBODY. yes... not all the girls only, but to guys as well...
then u improve as a guy...

if u wanna understand girls as much as possible, for the sole reason of being called romeo/ gentleman.... i say you wanna come playboy only.

very easy one... wanna understand girls better, no need to pray so hard, or read bible so hard, or find obscure complex definitions of 'love'.
it's all found in the bible - as clear as - love thy neighbour as u love urself.

yeah. treat all guys nice, for u blokes out there. treat all chicks equal as well blokes.
i notice u bunch of ppl, say u treat everyone same... u guys only mix with urselves! never involve other ppl! what about all the other girls that come to aspirers? say hi la.. talk to them, get to know them. invite them to join ur group (you wanna understand better ma). or talk to the other guys... arthur, jeremy tay, shannon, phillip yap. u wanna improve as a guy mah!

now now.... u wanna understand YOUR girl ure intersted in better right? ahha! then... it's not so 'righteous' anymore... it's more selfish! it's more of... i wanna get to know u more, so that i can make u happy, so that u and i can 'click' better, so that we like each other more kinda thing.

larrissa said about talk to tem , joke with them, sit with them, cry with them etc.... shouldn't u do taht with GUY / GIRL!? so all u romeos..... the secret is..... yes.... LOVE THY NEIGHBOUR. finito. trust me guys, wanna know a secret to a girls' heart? treat them as friends, as sisters. start by treating ur own sister (for me, suann) nicely. chances are, the way u treat ur mom / sister is the way u treat ur gf

wanna know something? up till now, i'm still learning ALL THAT I"VE MENTIONED above. needs God's guidance and plenty of humility on my side.

so yeah... i'm not saying u not supposed to have any crushes, or girls u like i'm speaking to the blokes (guys). i'm saying treat them as how u would treat any friend. if u stink in the way u treat ur other friends, chances are u will stink in treating this 'special girl'.

also girls... observe guys, on how they treat other girls. . .they might say they'll sit cry laugh or pull the moon to you... .but then see how they treat other girls... is it the same as how he treats u? does he respect and love the other girls the same way?

if he doesnt treat the other girls nice, chances are, when he's over you, he won't even talk to u now.... what kinda person is that? selfish.

love thy neighbour as yourself. AMEN? (no tricks, no formulae to understand the girls. just this simple line.)

Ok...

hahaha anywyas, not attacking any one of you.. .so relax

We won't be so sensitive...hehe=)

ok...

Remember what Pastor Ben said today.
1)Love your wives
2)Be a open guy
3)Be a man to speak.

Haha...im not in the service

haah theknife was kool la

and wives..
hmm..
wat i wan to say odi ah..
hmmm...
read back EPHESIANS 5: 23
i think..
pastor said tat today..
hehe..
im blur today..
bout de sermon..

aiyo..blur..then ask la.

hmmm..
i juz rmb bout de ephesians 5: 22-23
haha..
talk to steph bout tat...

u askin me to tok to her bout that or u talked to her bout that..blur...

woho! u go derrick. good lecture.
i got nothing more to add.
take heed guys.

i dunno bout u... but i always watch how guys treat other ppl (not jus other girls but other ppl). it says A LOT bout the person.

Lol...then what u saw in us,anne?lol
I want to learn to see also...haha...in fact im starting to see=)

i mean i talk to steph bout tat lar..
hehe..
see ppl..
haha.
weird..
but i try to learn hw to see oso lar..
=)

lol...sama sama belajar...keke
We exchange ideas...=)

later is lik gossiping odi..
hehe..

how can it matter to gossiping??....lol.
for sometime i didnt play around with blurness level.

I'm gonna quote all the 'words of wisdom' from our big brothers and sisters in a topic tht will be locked. =D

Dun u play with my blurness level...wun gossip one

hmm..see ? what do you mean?

anne,hw in any way do you see?is it very visible in our actions?

Actually is kinda easy to see...

how..plz dun answer lamely k

lame..
i nvr see any lame answer lar..
aiyo..
haha..
jeremy..
see we can use our eyes wat..
summore where can see..
aiyo...