BGR extension : WHAT IF my friend likes my crush..? :(

situation :

u a guy like a girl called Candy. Ur other friend, Wilson, likes this girl too.
What happens to ur friendship?
How do you conduct urself as a loving brother, as well as continue this thing u have for this girl?
How do u glorify God?


susah ohhhh :/

That's some tough problem....=/
sighhhhh.
I will stay as friends with Wilson then, but I don't know how to contain the feelings lo.... I think the friendship will not get any better with Wilson...the friendship will just stay at a point and doesn't get any better...

That's what i think.
just voicing out my opinion...

Erm,to me as long the gals i love is happy with him,then i wish her and him all d best...no point forcing people to love you
This is my point of view

jian wrote:Erm,to me as long the gals i love is happy with him,then i wish her and him all d best...no point forcing people to love you
This is my point of view

seems like loving and letting go, which can be quite sad...

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Don't know but if i can recall. i watched powerpuff girls...(haha...yeah )...in one of the episodes, bubbles love the animals and let all the animals go....the ones in the zoo...>.<

Sweat=_=
But you want the gal to be happy so thats the best way....
1sad better than 3 sad...
If you are meant to be with the gal,somehow she will be with you in the end...
Handle it to GOD...

wow...look whose so experience here???
hahaa
i sokong jian....alwayz man!!

Lol...thanks...haha...im not experience,i want to learn from derrick

wei i really need opinion on this....let say i like this guy then i told my friend...then that friend starting to like him..how then...so bad that friend right..she know i like him then y must she like also right...so how...help!!!!

Well, you cant stop your friend to like him,and your friend is not evil because she likes him. lol.

Erm,accept the fact she likes him
Do not hate or curse that friend because its her choice
Friendship is important,treasure it...
Handle to GOD as i said and you will get your reward...
Take it easy and pray daily...

actually right.. i've encountered before.. where the girl will purposely start flirting with that guy and getting REALLY friendly with him.. >.< if you know what i mean..

VERY the frustrating laaa

but then again you have to remember that the guy IS just a CRUSH.. and you CAN get over him.. like a snap *compared to if you felt more~*

so i say (for larissa's situation) try to get over the guy.. as for your friend.. hmmm.. depends on how colse you are... =/ i guess~

for derrick's situation.. erk! but i'm a girl!! i don't plan to like other girls~!!! hahahahaa

okok.. moment of rubbish = over

errmm.. if i were in that situation..
step 1: talk to wilson
step 2: consider how much candy (why name her candy???) is "worth"
step 3: see how much i actually like her
step 4: make sure im still 'good' with wilson
step 5: from all the previous step, consider to cotinue liking her or just forget her
step 6: make sure im still 'good' with wilson....


after all! friendship matters more than a crush..

wow..
ok..
for me..
same wit jian lar..
all de best 4 her lar....
muahaha..

lots gal waiting for us outside..
haha..
jkjk...

God will repay you with something better that you didn't expect...
So,no worries...you have a big bunch of buddies in chruch that are willing to be there for you anytime...
Take it easy...be rasional...

wah..i so proud of guy...so many generous guy in our church...y can't both person go after the gal & let the gal choose herself la... i think the friendship can be the same if wilson & i are good friends...do i answer the question?

I sokong Jian...Let it all be God's will.

Erm,we are the one should put the effort to make things right...
If that person really doesn't want to be your friend anymore because of that...then trust me his not a friend that you deserve to sad for...
But maybe perhaps he didn't think a bigger picture...
Let the gal choose...force doesn't bring us happiness but pain because we might get hurt in the future...learn to let go

jian are you a serious veteran? ....
Letting go is the hardest part you know jian....
Why not learn 'not to do anything'?

Do not be ignorant...you want cary on like this for life?ask yourself this question...your life will be so miserable...
Im not veteran...
Got to learn to let go...trust in GOD that you will find a better gal...
If in the end you got to let go,its GOD's plan...If GOD brings you into this situation,HE will bring you through it...
Difficult moments seek GOD...

jian wrote:Do not be ignorant...you want cary on like this for life?ask yourself this question...your life will be so miserable...
Im not veteran...
Got to learn to let go...trust in GOD that you will find a better gal...
If in the end you got to let go,its GOD's plan...If GOD brings you into this situation,HE will bring you through it...
Difficult moments seek GOD...

Amen to that Jian.But it will still be hard for anyone to let go.So...its not easy.

letting go is HARD but u noe..soon u will be able 2 & be glad that u did......y do u wan 2 carry that burden with u lk forever??...so lk jian say ...jz let go & pray that u will be able 2 lo....
in lari's situation..i can say that u can let go of ur crush..k??....jz let go & lk i say u will be glad u did it 1 day...i guess...

Sounds easy.
Put it into action = hard.
It's always the same concept all over and over again.

of cz la ...thats y i say tae time ma...it might be months...it might be years..hu noes??

Then turn to GOD over the difficult period...praise GOD when happy times...If you don't try to take action...things will delay delay and delay till one day you really cannot take it anymore...It might lead you to depression...
Act smart...seek advice from chruch leaders or friends...
They will help you...no worries...

wah jian ah...u're lk the 'tai ko' here..in this topic huh?

Nola...aiyo...lol
The fact ma...

k la ...i waas jk noe????

man i have to learn from ahjian~

yea..i guess....hahah

Lol,i know u joking,jess...ahahahahaha...
Don't learn from me,learn from derrick

wow. i'm kinda impress with u all wei. n proud too.

i jus wanna know tat us "leaders" are willing to listen anytime u wanna talk. tho most of us are also in the learning process but we can learn together n pray together k. =)

reli???......
lk duh....

Lol...leaders are human aso ma...they have to learn and experience love...hahaha...

yea..
agree....

So,lets help one another...

about wat...
check bout ur own gal fren??/
hmmm...