Re: BGR extension : WHAT IF my friend likes my crush..? :(

by jian Fri 25 May - 1:06

lets carry on this topic

by florancecsk Fri 25 May - 14:05

haha!! y u guy choose to let go ler?..like that not call hide about that meh? y cant face the problem & let the gal make her own decision?

by jian Sat 26 May - 0:46

Sesat la you,we meant let go if the gal choose to be with that guy...
Aiyo,sure let the gal choose,cause she gives the guy the chance so she has the chance to take it away...
As long the gal is happy,then we that love her will be happy

by seokqing Sat 26 May - 1:44

yea..
aiyo..
florance..
bacalah baik baik b4 u post semula...
ish..

by jessamine Sat 26 May - 9:33

she's forgiven cz she's still the BQ....

by jian Sat 26 May - 12:55

Yeah,we all forgive you for your blurness...muahahaha

by jessamine Sat 26 May - 23:25

yup....lets get bac 2 the topic??
the crushing thing will soon fade....so in my opinion jz giv it up...

by jian Sun 27 May - 0:19

Erm,my opinion,hang on and see the situation,if you know its not going well,then let go...We all still young....
Pray to GOD,as he will calm you...you shall find peace in him

by jessamine Sun 27 May - 0:24

but normally crushes come & go wan ma...so jz let it be lo..

by jian Sun 27 May - 1:11

Oh,paiseh...i thought you mean love...if crush let it be

by seokqing Sun 27 May - 1:35

haha..
yeap..
crush..
not luv..

time to learn..

acording to some dictionary..

crush mean.....
luv mean....

understand class???

by jian Sun 27 May - 15:39

Sweat...i have a quest for everyone...how u all define crush and love?

by joeltay17 Sun 27 May - 15:50

crush more on outward appearance.
Love is more on inside.

by seokqing Sun 27 May - 15:52

ya..
bit lik tat....

by jessamine Sun 27 May - 17:40

crush is lk ummm....u see the person & u go wa...& umm.....u treat the person differently.....love starts with friendship ma...eh wat hav u been doin durin image breakers ah???derrick is gonna whack u....ahahahha

by jian Sun 27 May - 23:43

I know d...just want see you all got what different answer...
Qing,give me another answer,cannot abit like that,lol

by jessamine Mon 28 May - 0:52

lol.....u type that jz 2 see wat ppl's opinion's are??
wat la u.....

by jian Mon 28 May - 1:27

Really ma...see different from my point of view anot ma

by florancecsk Mon 28 May - 20:05

thank for all ur forgiveness ppl..HAHA!!

Is that every love come from friendship? can crush come in when the friendship very long ady?

Can a crush turn to really love that person..i want to know that la..can anyone answer this?

by joeltay17 Mon 28 May - 23:29

florancecsk wrote:thank for all ur forgiveness ppl..HAHA!!

Is that every love come from friendship? can crush come in when the friendship very long ady?

Can a crush turn to really love that person..i want to know that la..can anyone answer this?

Love have to come from friendship. The "squareroot" of love is friendship.
Love is the maturity of friendship. We must be friends before we can be lovers....that's what i think. But i think it's a fact though...

by jian Mon 28 May - 23:56

Erm,love usually comes from friendship,but it take times,strong relation take times...
Crush can come in although very long friends d...its just GOD's plan...we must overcome it
It might turn to really love that person...if you all really meant tobe together,even is a crush,sooner or later you will end up with that person...Hopefully i answer your question

by florancecsk Tue 29 May - 12:18

hmm..then come back to the question..how do we know crush & love seen jian u say i can from crush to love? is so confusing...i blur liao..

by jian Tue 29 May - 13:07

Crush is something like u see the person,u fell in love with,but its maybe cause of appearance,u still dun really know the person's true character but u love cause u love...hmmm,maybe u keep thinking bout that person's look only...but it will fade if its crush
Love starts with friendship...it takes time...slowly and steady...
Erm,he/she will forgive you no matter what u did,thats love...
Love comes when u all realise each other's weakness and strength

by Jeremy Tue 29 May - 18:39

Crush is like when u see some 1 good looking n all,in the physical stage.You like them cause of appearance,not whats in the heart.Beauty can kill,or so said by seniors.

Love on the other hand is different.If the boy/girl really love each other,yes...they will consider the appearance,but they will also look at their character and attitude.

What Jian say is true.Crush can be created even if you know that person like for 2 seconds.Love takes a longer time.Get to kow each other etc.

by seokqing Tue 29 May - 22:17

wow..
totally agree..
but..
for luv..
i think tat they wont consider outside appearance so much lar..
luv is lik through ur heart u knw..
erm...
inside character lik attitude and character is more important...

by jian Wed 30 May - 0:24

Yeah,amen for that...
Love your love ones,treasure them while they are around...
Do not regret if 1day they are not here...

by leekinfei Wed 30 May - 13:38

1 Corinthians 13:4-7... "Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices in the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails."
If this is not how you feel, then you may not be in love.

by florancecsk Wed 30 May - 20:01

hmm..jian u still not yet get my question...my question is when u already very long friend with a person then will crush happen between 2 of u? if u long friend with that person u sure will know most of their character ma..rite? so is not appearance anymore? so when u like someone inner is that sure is love & not crush?

by seokqing Wed 30 May - 20:37

hmm..
hard ques..
but i think lar..
wat florance talking is not crush..
i mean after a long friendship and knw their character..
luv wil occur lor..
not crush...
tat time appearance is not important anymore..

but is lik lik sum1 inner..
it can b crush oso..
cnt say sure is luv but not crush lar..
tats my opinion lar..

by jian Thu 31 May - 0:34

Paiseh...
Erm,it might be crush as well...
Try asking yourself,will you still like he/she when they are old or maybe 1day they become cacat...if you still willing thats love...
Even long time being friends might be crush after all...Yup,if you have a long friendship with that person,you will know he/she's character but at times you might confuse whether its love or crush...
Maybe hunger of being together will not produce love but crush...
Love inner also might be crush...because you only love the inner part not everything bout the person...love is full of questions...
Maybe seeking advice from derrickand callista is the best...

by jessamine Thu 31 May - 9:54

wah...u guys went sooo deep till i'm lost....
i think the scriptures(scroll up & read kin fei's post)is what we have 2 follow rather than what ppl think lo...cz after all GOD is love....

by joeltay17 Thu 31 May - 9:59

Jian is like...totally lead the whole topic off. Smile

by florancecsk Thu 31 May - 13:59

oh..it that bcoz tis topic should discuss at BGR topic there?

by jian Thu 31 May - 23:50

Erm,did i answer your question,florance?haha...
Nola,didn't lead the topic...just voice out only...
Almost everyone has love problem ma

by Jeremy Fri 1 Jun - 16:05

haha.yea.
Florance:your question cant be answered easily.but I think it like this.Say that u know this guy a long time.sure u may knoow his character n attitude,his life etc.But this is the happening thing.It's your feeling.If you feel u want to be with him etc,u got a crush or pehaps love.But another feeling is like u befriend with him and got no other feelings on him.then nothing happens.
Hope it answers u. blah

by Sponsored content